Getting to know groom from another country
Posted April 13, 2010
on:So you met him over a cup of mocha and frappe at an international airport terminal and decided to give friendship a new meaning. Then you got chatting, sent mushy smses, forwarded love mails and burnt VoIP cards for the next 3 months. Soon also set up the wedding date to become one soul in two bodies. As a young girl, if you have chosen a groom from another country, just having this Mills and Boon whirlwind romance is not enough to marry. There is more information you need to know. Just learning that he has a great sense of humor, is fair and sweet looking isn’t sufficient.
Discover his secret personality and a little more about his family. It matters if you both have been raised in different cultural environments. Most girls adjust to the groom’s family, but will the groom and his family be equally respectful to the girl’s family-irrespective of the financial status of the family? Even if a girl will eventually be living alone, there may be times when parents may visit them. How can they adjust and make them feel comfortable? This is one of the critical issues to be clarified before wedding vows are taken.
While having a long distance relationship, trust is very important. Remember when you will be living together, you will have to share your husband with his friends, colleagues and acquaintances. Will the two of you be able to trust each other completely? Knowing this is also critical before marrying.
1 | Falah Azhar
May 3, 2010 at 11:01 am
your topic is exellent, but i would say on this that somewhere GOD has already made someone for us we just need to wait for him/her. This is some sort of a risk because, you cannot know the person who’s sitting next to you so, across the sea how?????? & putting yourself & your family members at risk…..